Fantasies and Foreplay

I honestly feel like “Date Nights” should be a time when a couple can connect with one another on a “soul” level. Today for “Date Night” I am suggesting you and your lover connect through Fantasies and Foreplay. This date night idea can be tailored to fit the level of the relationship. I have broken it up into two levels, one for those who are already in a committed relationship and one for those who are getting to know one another.

Committed Couples

There is more to sex that bumping and grinding. Sex when is done correctly is true intimacy and romance.   The two of you will write down three sexual things you’ve each always wanted to try on separate pieces of paper. Fold each fantasy and mark with your initials, mix the fantasies up. Take turns drawing out one of the other’s wishes, agreeing in advance to at least give it a try. You never know where the night may lead.

New Couples

If you are just getting to know someone you can both list three questions that you would like to ask the other person. Mix the questions up and pull the questions out one at a time. Allow each other to answer the question and move on to the next question. This is a great way to get to know your mate a little bit more and to begin conversations without the awkwardness.